Appropriate Dress
Two passages in the Epistles give instructions on our attitude to
clothes, one in 1 Timothy, the other in James.
I desire ... that
women should adorn themselves modestly and sensibly in seemly apparel, not with
braided hair or gold or pearls or costly attire but by good deeds, as befits
women who profess religion. (1
Timothy 2:9-10)
In
Greek and Roman society expensive clothes and elaborate, time-consuming
hair-styles, decorated with jewellery, were a means not only of making an
impression on others but also of demonstrating the wealth and social class of
the woman and her family. At various
periods of history, men have likewise
dressed to impress. Clothes today, while not necessarily extravagant or
expensive, still tend to indicate something about status in society. The
principle behind Paul’s comments above is that worldly estimates should have no
place amongst believers. It is quality of character that is important,
resulting in good deeds. Seeking to
impress by dressing up is not appropriate Christian conduct. While it is common practice for most of us to
wear our best clothes when attending the meeting on Sunday, the New Testament
does not supply support for this approach.
Nor does it justify the idea that some meetings of the ecclesia are
informal (and casual clothes can be worn), while others like the Breaking of
Bread are formal, and we should therefore dress up. Sometimes 1 Corinthians 14:40 is used to
argue for formal wear (“... all things should be done decently and in order”)
but this verse is not talking about clothes but about avoiding disruptive
behaviour at meetings.
It is easy to allow us to be influenced into judging people’s
characters by what they wear. Recently a
young man tried this out by visiting some of the Lutheran churches in America. He
dressed cleanly but informally in a sweat shirt and jeans, and found himself
either ignored by the ushers or shown to the back row! James gives a warning
about doing this:
My brethren, show
no partiality as you hold the faith of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Lord of
glory. For if a man with gold rings and
in fine clothing comes into your assembly, and a poor man in shabby clothing
comes in, and you pay attention to the one who wears the fine clothing and say,
“Have a seat here, please,” while you
say to the poor man, “Stand there,” or, “Sit at my feet,” have you not made
distinctions among yourselves, and become judges with evil thought? .... If you
really fulfil the royal law, according to the scripture, “You shall love your
neighbour as yourself,” you do well. But
if you show partiality, you commit sin.... (James
2:1-9)
Since people in the world do
tend to judge by appearances, we should take care not to give the wrong
impression. The wrong impression can be
given if we all look expensively dressed, or if we all look shabbily dressed!
Since the Gospel message is relevant to all, it is appropriate that we should
dress in clothes normal to each of us, not attempting to have any sort of
universal standard dress-style or insisting on it for others. Fashions in dress change; what one generation
likes, another dislikes. For example,
several decades ago people tended to disapprove of women wearing trousers; nowadays, it is generally accepted and young
people of both sexes frequently wear jeans.
There is nothing wrong or unbiblical in this. Sometimes the prohibition in Deuteronomy is
quoted:
A woman shall not
wear anything that pertains to a man, nor shall a man put on a woman’s
garment; for whoever does these things
is an abomination to the LORD your God. (Deuteronomy
22:5)
This
does not refer to clothing which is normally accepted by society as applicable
to both sexes. The context in
Deuteronomy is not explained, but is likely to be a warning against the immoral
practices of surrounding nations.
Believers in Christ should not seek to follow the newest in
fashion, nor deliberately trail a long way behind (which simply means following
the newest fashion of several decades ago).
We should be different on issues that matter – morality, lifestyle,
belief. The words of Jesus are
relevant.
You cannot serve
God and mammon. Therefore I tell you, do
not be anxious about your life, what you shall eat or what you shall drink, nor
about your body, what you shall put on.
Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothing? ... why are
you anxious about clothing? ... if God so clothes the grass of the field, ...
will he not much more clothe you, O men of little faith? Therefore do not be anxious, saying, “What
shall we eat?” or “What shall we drink?” or “What shall we wear?” For the Gentiles seek all these things; and
your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. But seek first his kingdom and his
righteousness, and all these things shall be yours as well. (Matthew 6:24-33)
In
these words Jesus challenges each of us on our modern-day materialism. When most of us are so well supplied with
this world’s goods, this passage makes uncomfortable reading. The context contrasts a life devoted to
material enrichment with the way of Jesus which is to seek primarily to live
under God’s standards in the pursuit of goodness. We should be grateful to God for all the good
things we have received but we need to take care that these do not assume a
wrongly important part in our lives.